Living a meaningful and fulfilling life

We live life only but once. So in whatever things we do, listen to god's will, follow our heart, and do not be afraid to chase our dreams..........Amen........

Saturday, June 23, 2007

V的婚礼

我在六月十日参加了好友V的婚礼。
我非常期待她的这场婚礼,
因她的婚礼非常与众不同,
因我可以见到好久不见的前同事,
因我陪她他走过了无数充满泪水与心如刀割的岁月,
她和B才终于走到了这一步。

她的婚礼在CHANGI POINT FERRY TERMINAL 7 的度假村举行。
在渐渐西沉的夕阳的照耀下,在轻轻拍打着岸边的海浪的催眠下,
V和B携手走入了人生的另一个阶段,一个我还没有勇气走入的阶段。
一切是多么的洁白,神圣,纯洁与浪漫。
未来的道路是一个未知数,
但我打从心里祝福他们过得永远幸福美满,
也祈求上帝带领他们的婚姻生活。

我的新家庭

离开了房,加入了城,我已经渐渐地融入了这个新家庭。
每一次的聚会,每一次的交谈,都让我忘记时间的存在。
这个家庭的成员,让我不知不觉交出我的心,我的时间。

在我住院的那两天,我愿意让他们来探望和关心我,
因我知道我心里不会有情感上和义务上的负担和责任,
不像从前那样。
他们让我觉得他们是我真正的朋友,
让我心里觉得真诚,舒服,自然。

那天我们在MINDS CAFE聚会。
我虽然觉得那个地方太吵闹,甚至不喜欢那个地方,
但他们的陪伴和欢笑声,
却使那次的聚会在我脑海中留下了一小段插曲。

我很珍惜每一次的聚会,也期待将来更多的聚会。
我终于体会到教友也是朋友的那种交心的感受。
感谢上帝把我带到了这个新的大家庭。
而我希望以后的我也能够成为新教友真正的朋友。

求主医治我

我在假期里动了一个小手术。
这是我第一次动手术,也是我第一次住院。
不过勇敢的我竟然自己办入院手术,
也独自一人办出院手术。
不过我并不觉得害怕,也不觉得孤独,
因为在整个过程中,我都恳求主的同在和平安。

手术过后的疼痛是难免的,我也坚强地忍受着。
不过天父啊,我真的祈求您赶快医治我,
使伤口不再流血,不再红肿。

其实在人的一生中,没有什么比健康的身体更重要了。
唯有身体健康,才能够去过我想要过的有意义的生命。

Sunday, June 17, 2007

What a different and unexpected holiday I had

Today is already 17 June, one more week left and school will reopen again.
This is the most different and unexpected holiday I have lead in my whole life.
Instead of spending my days in a guesthouse or hotel overseas,
I spent most of my time resting in a 5* hospital and at home.

The cost of $4700 is only affordable by those who have bought insurance.
But for some, even insurance can't help them and they can only afford low-cost operation and hospitalisation costs, but at the risk of their own life.
The benefits of seeking private hospital treatments are of course doctors whom you can trust and who would not cut away the wrong part of your body.

The pain is still bearable, although it costs alot of discomfort to me.
And now I am being "quarantined" at home, instead of going out everyday.
Somehow, it is a suppression of my active nature, but then its a lesson that teaches me to slow down my life and find entertainment at home.

This holiday is also an encounter of death due to cancer.
WL's grandpa died of cancer after a few months of struggle with it.
D and B's grandmas have also got last stage cancer and they have not much time left.
Cancer is really the number 1 killer in the whole world now.
And the cost of it is really our fast-pace life and unhealthy lifestyle.
And it also means that no illness doesn't mean you are healthy.
So people, do take care of your health and build up your immune system.

To end it all, the most memorable parts of this holiday are the TR journey at Furama waterfront, the staff heritage tour and trip to seremban with Charles.
I thank god for a bunch of great colleagues and for bringing C into my life.
And also not forgetting meeting up with SW and playing with her boy.
And of course I have to thank god for bringing such a great cell group, and pp like Su and J into my life. They bring joy into my hospital stay.