The meaning of pain

"Far from being an obstacle to our spiritual growth, pain can be the instrument of it—if we're trained by it. It can push us closer to God and deeper into His Word. It is a means by which He graciously shapes us to be like His Son, gradually giving us the compassion, contentment, tranquility, and courage we long and pray for. Without pain, we wouldn't be all that God wants us to be. His strength shines brightest through human weakness."

I extracted the above phrase from the daily bread today....Really like to share this verse with my beloved fren vivi, who is going through so much pain recently.....I really pray that you will get out of this bondage, move on with life, n find true happiness n joy. Don't hesitate to call me out if you need me. I will always be available for you even when I'm attached now.......;)

I also pray that Weiwei will not feel so much remorse for that thing which had happened already, and that she and her hubby will come to know god's great love, n forgiveness one day, n find true joy and happiness.